Becca Bernstein

October26th

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On Friday, I randomly posted on Twitter, the following post:

“Can we start #FatGirlFridays and talk about all the foods we like to eat in the privacy of our cars?”

Instantly, I was bombarded with DMs or Direct Messages, which are private messages that do not meet the public world. Everyone had a fat girl confession. From eating greasy fries to downing milkshakes. We were all hiding something.

But no one wanted to admit it. I quickly felt alone. And worse: FAT. No one wants to feel fat. And what’s wrong with splurging on food? Everyone I know loves food.

When no one would comment, I decided to punk my friend, @Kara_Schwab with a fake Retweet (or forwarded message)

“Too funny! RT @kara_schwab: I just ate 3 Whoppers in 2 minutes. No holding the MAYO this time! Hooray for #FatGirlFriday!”

And of course, she posted a fake Retweet too:

“RT @beccabernstein i just dove into a bag of oreos, ate the whole bag, and now i’m wearing it on my head. #FatGirlFriday.”

It became a fun game of fake retweets and silly comments about food. And throughout this entire process, I kept getting DM confessions.

People wanted to talk about their relationships with food. But they wanted to do it privately. So, I’m figuring out what to do with this. I just purchased FatGirlFriday.com and FatGirlFriday.net and I’m thinking about writing a book or a collection of Fat Girl confessions. Or a reality series that focuses on Fat Girls and what we like to eat.

It’s all in the works and it’s a fun pet project for me.

Please stay tuned. And in the interim, please tweet on Fridays with the hash tag #FatGirlFriday about your secret fat girl confessions. I’d love to hear them.

Sincerely,
Fat Girl Friday

2 Comments

  • Comment by Julie Castell — November 5, 2009 @ 1:38 pm

    Yes, I was a “car eater”. I’m not fat by others standards but if you ask me, I am huge! I think that’s common with most women.

    I would love to read “Fat Girl Friday” if you are up to constant blogging.

    I love reading your stuff.

    julie
    @jujuburd

  • Comment by admin — November 5, 2009 @ 1:47 pm

    Thanks for your comments, Julie. I’m not fat by normal standards either. But I’ve struggled with my weight my entire life. For me, Fat Girl Friday is an opportunity to be empowered and liberate ourselves from normal conventions. I’m tired of air-brushed women and catering to an ideal that is completely unachievable. I’m ready to start accepting me for me. And this is my way. Hopefully it will work. Thanks again for your thoughts.

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